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well that was graphic....

Anyway it's possible he could be confusing feelings of comfort and friendship for something more than it is. Certainly wouldn't be the first time someone of any gender or preferences made the same mistake.

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if he doesn't like having something shoved up his rear, he's not Bi, or homo sexual.


um that is totally wrong. I know many ppl who identify as gay/bi who dont do tht type of sex act
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oh i forgot to add i also know many straight couples who do enjoy that type of activity. both the men and the women
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*blinks*......

On topic?

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ok maybe not. It just irks me when ppl make such negative blanket statements.
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quote:

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*blinks*......

On topic?





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A friend should always consider your feelings too. Explain to him that while you are charmed by his compliment, you really are not attracted to males in a romantic setting. It is best to nip this in the bud immediately, or it will become more serious later.
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Hmm. There's a point. I think I may tell him that. Thanks to all who offered advice!

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huh, last post, and.


Great play of words there, John. emoticon

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quote:

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He's really, really insecure. He has only just stopped self-harming. I don't want to push him over the edge again. Really, a very very bad idea. I also don't want him to feel that there's something wrong with him.

What now?

(By the way he's really into it now. I'm the "only one he can relate to", suppposedly)



There must be reasons to his insecurity, do you know/can you tell us why he is insecure? Does he feel inadequate? Is he depressed? Knowing the reasons behind it will help you with this problem, it sounds to me like his insecurity is the cause of all this. And pushing him away from you will not help if you want to solve the problem. (And no, I'm not saying you should have a relationship like that, but what I am saying is that if you tell him the wrong way and it breaks your friendship, his situation might regress worse than it was before). You're phrase that "You're the only on he can relate to." implies that he doesn't have other friends, is this true? Maybe it could be the cause. If you're the only one who understands him, maybe he feels it would be easier to go into a relationship with you than to overcome his insecurity, and try to get a girlfriend. All in all, this situation you have on your hands sounds delicate, but you need to be firm. You need to get him out of this haze he's in, and you need to do it soon. At least that is all I can think of, I'm not going off much information here. But best of luck, God bless you.

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